With the
holidays fast approaching, it seems like a good time to talk a bit
about our recovering friends. We want them to come to the party, but we
don’t want to endanger their sobriety. What to do?

Social occasions that involve people in recovery—especially early
recovery—can pose some perplexing problems for the hosts. On one hand,
a host who is aware of a guest’s need to avoid mood-altering substances
may wish to do what is possible to keep from exposing them to
temptation. On the other hand, social drinking is a part of everyday
American culture. Most social gatherings involve some drinking by some
of the guests. A host may be at a loss as to how she ought to deal with
recovering guests.

There are some simple things to remember.